take me, i'll follow

Like that of the song, I want you to take me wherever you go.I want to be part of your world. Let me in because i want to see the things that you see. I would do those that you do. Learn things that you know. You must have been heaven sent. It must be you, whom God had given me. You came the right time so I believe it is you! This is why I'm not letting you go. WIll give you thousands of reason to stay with me forever. Try my best to make you happy and for the love to continue to blossom. Will just wait for the right time for us. I know you are worth the wait. Just promise you'll take care of my heart. That you'll keep me forever, for I am keeping you until we both shall live. Saying I love you is my way of keeping you. :)

xoxo,
A

the yellow light

I always say this and i won't get tired of telling you over and over again that communication really is one key to a relationship's success. Whenever, wherever or whatever you are doing, you'll be needing to communicate. To interact, to socialize, to catch up with an old friend, to solve distance problems of couples, to ease a grieving heart,to understand what has been misunderstood and even just to ride a public vehicle what we need is communication.

Lots of people are afraid to tell what they really feel. Maybe they just don't know how to say it, the approach and the right words to be used. Hard, indeed. But we have to face it. If we let things hanging for a long time, that might result to bigger and harder problem to solve. As early as possible, try to talk it over. Prepare yourself for every possible answers to your question. Anticipate worst cases, so even if it's that hurtful you'll have enough strength to face it. There will be high probability of making the right decision. It's because you've thought of it over and over again, which means, for the good of the many that choice has to be chosen.

This happens always, especially with couples. Problems, conflicts, misunderstandings, and even deception. Initially, we tend to overreact on things. We commit the mistakes we don't want to commit. We become impulsive, non-thinking creatures. But it's natural. You let your emotions flow, and released from its box inside you. But think of it, isn't it better for us to be relaxed at first. Be rational, and approach the matter at hand smoothly. Take it slowly. Be mature. Be extra careful of everything you want to do, for this will reflect your personality. This is your own way of saving yourself from, let's just say "embarrassment". Like that of the traffic light, it's not just green and red but there is yellow. In love, we do not always throw ourselves to every opportunity at hand. We also have to learn letting go and stopping. But before we achieve either way, we have to pass the center or the balancing part. We have to see things on both sides. That is possible through the yellow light. Make use of your yellow light. Have a yellow heart.

(picture grabbed from Y! images)

love, indeed.

They say, what makes the world go 'round is love. Everything is about love. To our family, friends, neighbors, school mates, and especially to our significant others. But what would you give just just to please our loved ones? Will it be "whatever it takes"? . . . .

There are these people who become blind because of love. The concept of what is right or wrong is becoming vivid. They are losing their sense of self, most of the times. Impulsiveness. Pleasure. Mistakes. More Mistakes. Destruction. Frustration. Sickness. Even, Death. These are the results of too much use of the heart without considering what the mind says. The heart, which is placed below the mind and supposedly used secondarily after the latter, becomes superior. We tend to be confused because there are those who are telling us to follow our heart. But what if the heart is yearning too much for love? People would tend to forget what their mind is telling them. I just don't understand why this happens. But what I know is i love the feeling of being in-love and getting that love back. It would look selfish, but, it's life. That's how life works. You just have to know how to deal with it. Love freely and wisely. Just be prepared of the consequences. Pray, and you'd know what to do.

define it for me

Everyone has fallen in love. Everyone has fallen out of love. But do we really know what love is? Do we really know the value of the word "love"? Will time really define love? Let's see.

Personally, I'm not sure if I've been in love. In love, in the sense of having a relationship with someone special. I've felt infatuations, in fact there's a lot. Sometimes I wonder why. Maybe my horoscope, Metal Horse, is a factor. The last time I checked, it was said in my horoscope that Horses are afraid of commitments. And so to scare Horses off, talk to them about commitments. I believe, that is somehow true. I have this feeling of "claustrophobia" if the idea of entering in a relationship comes my mind. Although before the year opens, I admit, I asked for it. I asked for a true relationship to come for me this year. To have someone as inspiration and motivation. It was actually surprising because as early as the first day of classes this year, I had what I asked for. Quite fast. Yet until now, there's no improvements. Actually, I like him already. But it looks like he doesn't like me anymore. Sad, but I do not know what to think anymore. It's as if he's already tired of telling me that he likes me and slowly retreating. Do you think that the fact that I have him in my mind everyday since day 1 shows that I love him? He's not my ideal guy, but he's really nice. Someone who's easy to be loved. Plus, I have this personality of feeling guilty whenever I make someone sad unintentionally. So, I give compromises for us to meet half-way. But why do I feel like it's me doing the courting. It's as if I am the one doing things to win his heart. So confusing. Yes, I like him already but something's holding me back. Maybe I am conservative that's why. It's just a month ago since we formally met. So what's your say on this? It will look like I am easy-to-get. But I am having problems already. As I said, it feels like he doesn't like me anymore. He once said that it's also tiring to ask and ask. But isn't patience the main point of courting? Because of this attitude he's showing, I'm already doubting his sincerity. All I want is for him to wait. Wait until I'm ready.

Oh well, maybe I'll pause first. Stop from expecting. I'll just wait for things to happen and hope for the best. :p Hope it works between us. I really want to try the feeling of "US". Will just hold on to prayers for now.